Wednesday, July 31, 2013

How A Man Thinks

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Sunday, July 28, 2013

Be A Heartbreaker Figuratively

Lyrics:

Rule number one, is that you gotta have fun
But baby when you're done, you gotta be the first to run
Rule number two, just don't get attached to
Somebody you could lose
So le-let me tell you

This is how to be a heartbreaker
Boys they like a little danger
We'll get him falling for a stranger
A player, singing I lo-lo-love you
How to be a heartbreaker
Boys they like the look of danger
We'll get him falling for a stranger
A player, singing I lo-lo-love you
At least I think I do

Cause I lo-lo-lo-love you

Rule number three, wear your heart on your cheek
But never on your sleeve, unless you wanna taste defeat
Rule number four, gotta be looking pure
Kiss him goodbye at the door, and leave him wanting more, more

This is how to be a heartbreaker
Boys they like a little danger
We'll get him falling for a stranger
A player, singing lo-lo-love you
How to be a heartbreaker
Boys they like the look of danger
We'll get him falling for a stranger
A player, singing lo-lo-love you
At least I think I do

Cause I lo-lo-love you

Girls, we do, whatever it will take
Cause girls don't want, we don't want our hearts to break in two
So it's better to be fake, can't risk losing
In love again, ba-abe

This is how to be a heartbreaker
Boys they like a little danger
We'll get him falling for a stranger
A player, singing lo-lo-love you
How to be a heartbreaker
Boys they like the look of danger
We'll get him falling for a stranger
A player, singing lo-lo-love you

Cause I lo-lo-lo-love you

At least I think I do


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Tuesday, July 9, 2013

If He Doesn't Want You

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O In the book, "Why Men Love Bitches", it states that, the bitch could care less if a man doesn't want her, because she doesn't want anyone who doesn't want her! There's a song that explains this very well and it's called , "Two Many Fish In The Sea", written by Marvalettes Remember the chorus of this song. The song is below.


Take this advice, and remember always in life:

Into each heart some tears must fall
Though you love and lose, you must stand tall
'Cause we all got to cry sometimes
I said, sigh sometimes
Pull yourself together
No use crying forever
Because there's too many fish in the sea
Too many fish in the sea
I said, there's short ones, tall ones, fine ones, kind ones
Too many fish in the sea

My mother once told me something
And every word is true
Don't waste your time on a fella
Who doesn't love you
He'll only mislead you
Only grieve you
Don't worry about him
Do without him
Because there's too many fish in the sea
Too many fish in the sea
I said, there's short ones, tall ones, fine ones, kind ones
Too many fish in the sea

Well, if the fish isn't on your line
Bait your hook and keep on trying
Don't let him get you down
There's other boys around
Because there's too many fish in the sea
Too many fish in the sea
I said, there's short ones, tall ones, fine ones, kind ones
Too many fish in the sea

I don't want nobody that don't want me
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea
Ain't gonna love nobody that don't love me, now
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea
I don't need nobody that don't need me
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea
I don't want nobody that don't love me, now
'Cause there's too many fish in the sea


Sing it!

Please remember this, if a man doesn't want you, then you don't want him either. That's how you get your power back, staying 100% confident! When I was younger , I use to argue with guys who clearly had crushes on me and would try and insult me, also known as, neg and love taps , and I would defend my stance but now that I'm 30, I ask myself why I even bothered? I know my worth . I know who I am. No man can take them from me. They may have tried , due to their own insecurities but in the end, they lost. You don't have to argue with a man nor defend your beauty because in the end , time heals and time will also show you the truth. Just rely on time, like you do in the end , because time rules in the end. Stand back and know that you don't want anybody who doesn't want you because there's too many fish in the sea! Pick your choice. The world is an ocean ;)

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Monday, July 8, 2013

A Man's Reverse Psychology

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O I believe that God puts Noone who dislikes you in your path to help you. If a person dislikes you, then most likely they cant do a damn thing for you! With that being said, the same applies for men. Men know women are powerful and so what they do is, give you the cold shoulder , keep you at arms length , ignore you, play hard to get games, in order to keep you dangling and coming back for more! It's a reverse psychology tactic. The less interested they are in you, the more interested you are in them. It's a game. Men do this to keep themselves from succumbing to a woman's power and seduction , therefore, they are able to continue playing women and getting what they want from women. If men let you know what your power was, then there would be no more chess games nor power struggles. There would be millions of blue balls and broken souls. Men don't want you to know this , therefore they play reverse psychology games. I personally believe that, men who Mistreat you, play you, lie to you, are emotionally unavailable , negative , lack chivalrous behavior are only acting as a smoke screen to prevent you from seeing the facts. The fact of the matter is, a man who is throwing nothing but shade, rejection and disses has nothing , absolutely nothing to offer you! That is the reason for his smoke screen behavior. He wants to keep you guessing , so that you are distracted by what's really going on and that's absolutely nothing! If a man can help you, and add to your life to make it better , he will be easy to understand , lovely to take home, a gentleman= no drama! A man with something to offer will be of no drama because has no reason to play games nor bring hell to your life , spiritually and emotionally , because he has much to Bring to the table. Once a pon a time , I dated a horrible Leo guy for about five seconds and he was broke suddenly and picked a fight with me and as a result , we did not go out. My friend suggested that he was broke and was picking a fight because he didn't have the decency to tell me he didn't have any money to take me out. Come to find out , she was right and he admitted it. He picked a fight , insulted me , said untruthful things about me and confused the hell out of me , manipulated me, all because he didn't have any money and was at a lost. What a petty demon spawn. Reverse psychology ! A real man with something going for his self doesn't have time for that. Remember that. If he's dissing you, confusing you, stressing you , cheating on you , making your life a living hell or mistreating you , and rejecting you, then most likely , he's simply doing those things because he can't do anything for you and he has nothing to offer.

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Friday, July 5, 2013

Mathew 7:6. My Favorite Verse

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O Do Not Give Dogs What Is Holy And Do Not Throw Your Pearls Before Swine, Lest They Trample Them Under Their Feet And Turn To Attack You - Matthew 7:6

What this all means is, do not surround yourself with just any old body. Refer to my last blog entry. If you walk around carelessly , allowing people and especially men into your life from all walks of life, you will eventually be devoured! There are many people on the prowl , waiting to pounce on someone, so don't be their next victim! Remember to buckle up , have 100% confidence, be careful and keep away from men, until he has earned you, otherwise, that man will hurt you! You never know if you are casting your pearls before swine or not so be diligent and watchful, until you know for sure!

You know what happens when you cast your pearls before swine, swine flu! Lol

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Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Keep a Man Away From You Until

Hello, Male Decoded has moved and changed locations. Please refer to my new website at www.maledecoded.com My new blog location will offer more services to my readers. I will no longer write on this site, so please visit new blog site. www.maledecoded.com Follow me @Relationships 1O Keep a man away from you until he has earned you. Men who make us feel insecure and doubtful are men whom we didn't keep away from us long enough for them to value and respect us. In the words of Robert Greene, "proper distance from a woman is needed in order to gain a man's respect". Notice how the men that you have distance between , rather accidental or intentional, usually have the utmost respect for you. Nine out of ten , they are not mistreating you, nor making you feel like shit. No man should have the opportunity to put you down , disrespect you , nor mistreat you and especially not reject you, unless of course you let him into your personal space a little too fast. He shouldn't even be close enough to you, unless he's earned you, in which if he did, he wouldn't be doing those things to begin with. My theory is, men will hurt you! If they are not coming to make you feel good, then they are coming to hurt you! Do not let men get close to you , unless he has earned it. Keep a safe distance, and earn proper treatment. Trust no man!

Matthew 7:6

Never Date A Man In Therapy

I know this may sound judgmental but I know first hand. Men don't go to therapy, period! They work their issues out themselves. They may go to church, pray, do yoga, mediate, talk it out with their friends, write , drink, box , jog , exercise, etc but they rarely, if ever go to therapy! My background is in psychology and let me tell you, there is a shortage of males that go to therapy. Men are problem solvers by nature and tend to find their own way at some point. Their lives are like maps and they just follow their own path, until boom, they stumble across their very own destination. Men who go to therapy are usually the most screwed up. They usually have the most issues. It's a bad sign when a man cannot solve his own problems. If a man cannot turn to God , prayer or the church for help, it's a bad look. Unless something tragic has occurred in his life , then therapy is usually not an option and even still , tragedy shows evidence for some deep seething issues leading to him seeking therapy. Now of course ,I'm not against therapy . My background is in psychology, however , it's a lot more normal and common for women to seek therapy, instead of men. Women are open, talkative, sharing and nurturing, so its totally different when a woman seeks therapy. She may be a normal girl with normal problems. She may just need someone to talk to and or she may have some serious stuff going on that she needs to work through. As a professional, I wouldn't judge anyone who seeks therapy. It can be a wonderful experience. In fact, i think everyone should try it at least once. However, In my personal life, I do not choose to date a man who is in therapy. I know , I know it may seem like he's responsible and sensitive but be careful with a man like that because he may have a lot of deep rooted issues and you don't want to get involved in the middle of that. Whenever a man decides to go to therapy, just know that, it's that bad! He's at the point of feeling as if he can't solve his own problems and has to go outwardly, instead, which is pretty effeminate since most men try their best to seek other means. Be careful with dating a man in therapy. Besides , you don't want a man who needs someone else to tell him what to do or how to think and you surely don't need a man with problems.

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Never Date A Man When Your Life

Never date a man when your life is upside down. If you are insecure, in between jobs, jobless, depressed , stressed , lonesome , down, bored , broke, voided, not dating, etc now is not the time to date. Never date a man when you're going through. Why? Because you are more vulnerable and powerless when your life is up side down. Never date a man when you have no other options because that's like putting all your eggs in one basket. The best time to date is when you're busy with life, busy with work , busy with school, and just busy, busy , busy. Be powerful in dating , dating with esteem , instead of dating when you're vulnerable. Now I know when we are down and voided ,we desire relationships more but that is the very worst time to date ! Never date when you are not busy nor powerful in life! Never date one man at a time. Date others to ,until commitment comes. Otherwise you are setting yourself up to be putty in a mans hands!

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